Sunday, July 18, 2010

Finally ... after much anticipation...

Wow... has it really been almost three months since I've had to time to do a post?  Sorry Grandma!  We should be able to officially put our house on the market within the next two weeks so I should be able to get back on a more regular schedule now.

We are so ready to be finished in Asheville.  We've gone there every single weekend since we moved in January (minus a couple when it snowed so much we couldn't get off the mountain and Mother's Day weekend because I was really sick).  I just hope that we can find the right buyer for the house now and get it sold so that we can find our new home up here.  We've started to look a little bit but I really don't want us to fall in love with a place and then lose it to someone else because our house hasn't sold yet.

Life here is really wonderful.  This is such a beautiful place and really a perfect community in which to raise a child. I don't really know where to start to provide an update on what Jake has been doing for the past three months but I'll give it the old college try...

Jake got to go on a field trip to Grandfather Mountain in April and Trip was able to go along as a chaperon which was great.  They had a really great time and Jake was very brave.  He was the only child to cross the swinging bridge all by himself.  That makes me proud and a little nervous all at the same time. 

We took in a couple more ASU baseball games before the season ended and feel sure that we'll be season ticket holders next year.  Jake really loved going to the games and still keeps asking when we can go to another one. 

We had a really nice visit with Grandma and Grandpa.  They rented a cabin in the valley about ten minutes away from the house we are renting and Jake was really thrilled to have them here.  He got lots of play time with them which was really wonderful since he doesn't get to see them as often as we would like.  They tried to teach him that Harley's say "potato, potato, potato" when they are running but he didn't buy it.  Now when we ask him what says "potato, potato, potato" he says... "Grandma and Grandpa".  Grandma's sister and her husband (Aunt Lynne and Uncle Sherrill) came up and spent some time and Aunt Lynne taught Jake to sing "Wheels on the Bus" which he loved.  When he sings it and we ask him where he learned it he still says "Aunt Lynne taught me".  Trip's twin brother and his girlfriend also came up for a few days to hang out at the cabin which was fun.  Jake got a great haircut from Uncle Paul, had funny flirting with Jennifer and got lots of "kisses" from their dog.

We had our first outing to Tweetsie and Jake loved it!  He was a little nervous about riding the train because it was so loud but once we were on board and moving he was a very happy little guy.  We had a fun day but unfortunately we think that's where Jake picked up Roseola.  We were at Tweetsie on Sunday... on Monday Jake was a little less energetic than normal and by Tuesday morning he had a fever of nearly 104.  We took him to the doc but other than being very sleepy all the time, having no appetite and a very high fever he had no other symptoms.  They did blood work which came back perfectly normal and told us to watch him closely and call them if anything worsened or if he developed additional symptoms.  They felt sure that he had been exposed to Roseola.   It was a long stressful week while we worried and waited to see if they were right.  Sure enough after having a very high fever for four days on Saturday he got the rash so we knew their diagnosis was correct.  We were relieved to know what was wrong and 24 hours after getting the rash he was well on the way to being his normal self.  Most kids have it by the time they are two but since Jake stayed home with me he hadn't been exposed to it.

The 4th of July was a quite celebration for us this year.  Mamaw and Papaw came up for the day and we did a little fishing, had a cookout and finally celebrated my Mom's birthday with her.  We decided not to go see fireworks this year because we weren't sure Jake was ready for it.  Luckily, we could see some fireworks just across the mountain while we stood outside on our deck.  Jake LOVED them and after everyone he would look over at me with a big smile on his face and say... "again Mama".  He also asked to watch fireworks when it got dark the next couple of nights so I think next year we'll be ready to venture out on the 4th of July.

Jake has always loved the water and he has no fear whatsoever so we decided that we should do swim lessons sooner rather than later.  We signed him up for a class at ASU so he's taking lessons in the Appalachian swimming pool.  Trip and I are getting a kick out of that since we met at App almost 21 years ago and now our little boy is taking swim lessons there.  The purpose of the first class is to get the toddlers comfortable in the water so its a parent/child scenario.  That means that Trip is in the pool with Jake for every lesson.  Jake was so comfortable in the water during the very first class that he kept telling Trip not to hold him.  The instructor quickly picked up on the fact that our little fish wanted to be more independent so she brought a float belt for him to wear in the second class.  The float belt allows Trip to let go of Jake very briefly which Jake loves.  He's learning to blow bubbles in the water, to put the back of his head in the water and to lay on his back and kick.  The first class is three nights per week for three weeks and then we'll try to sign him up for the next level so our little fish can continue to learn how to be safe in the water.

I'm including lots of pictures from the last three months so enjoy and stay tuned because I'll try to be back for at least one update every month.

Happy 29 Month B-Day to Me!
I'm cold Daddy...
Watch me kick Mama...
Learning to put my head back into the water was fun...
I love swim lessons!!!
When the clock say 4:00 I can get in the water...
Happy Birthday Mamaw!
I think I have another shark on the line!
I want to hold him Daddy...
I thought it was going to be a lot bigger!
This was a great way to spend the 4th of July!
Hey... was that another deer?
Mama says that I'm such a big boy now...
I have to wash this car before I drive to Asheville again...
I was tired of standing up so I figured out a way
to eat in my learning tower and sit down...
I'm ready to ride like Daddy now!
Digging in the dirt with my excavator is one of my
favorite things to do right now.
I think that water looks way too cold so I'll just watch.
Happy Father's Day Daddy!
Happy 28 Month B-Day to Me!

Riding the merry-go-round with my Mommy...
Mama... this is like the train table I play with at the library.
Let's go find some animals to feed.
Look Daddy... this baby goat got out...
Where is the train?
One more time Mama...
Daddy loves me!
Riding Thomas was loud but I had fun anyway.
Giddy up!
Thomas came to Tweetsie for a visit and Mama and Daddy
took me to see him...
Wow Daddy... Thomas really is here!!!!
I told you I could make a Y...
I'm getting very sleepy...
I took this picture of my Grandma when she came to visit...
Giggling with Grandma and Grandpa...
I'm not sure Shrek should be in the family photo??
This is my Daddy's Mommy and my Grandma...
Happy Birthday Grandma!
Uncle Paul let me wade in the river!!
Just the boys, hanging out down by the river...
Uncle Paul's dog really liked me a lot!
Shooting the breeze with Grandpa and Uncle Sherrill
outside the Mast General Store.
You guys are embarrassing me with all these pictures...
(this is my Grandma and her sister, my Aunt Lynne)
I made Grandma laugh so hard just by pushing
my duck down the sidewalk...
Playing some checkers in my favorite store...
Grandma ... I'm so glad you're here!
Throwing rocks in the river makes me laugh...
I loved this really big yard at Grandma and Grandpa's cabin!
Check out my new backpack...
Crackers?  Why would I need crackers?
Enjoying music in the park with my Daddy...
This is great!  I get to eat, be outside and listen to bluegrass.
What more could a two year old want?
Wait... is that a swing set I see over there?
Planting a tomato for my Mommy's birthday...

I think this is a wild horse!
Uncle Russell helped me ride Katie and Abbie's scooters...
I think I can get one more bite out of here...
Throw it to me!
I love going to Appalachian baseball games!
Enjoying some tunes on Daddy's ipod...
Happy 27 Month B-Day to Me!
This is the only thing I like about Daddy having to
go to Raleigh every month.... doughnuts!!!!!!!
Happy Mother's Day Mama!
I made this for you at Miss Felecia's...
My Mommy loves me so much!

I'm a really good baseball player!
Wow... does that really say that we're one mile up?
I walked across the swinging bridge all by myself!
Lilly is ALWAYS giving me kisses!
Miss Felecia took us to Grandfather Mtn.
on a field trip and my Daddy went with us.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Spring has sprung!

It has been another busy month here. We're still going to Asheville every weekend which has become exhausting! We're freshening up our old house so that we can get it on the market before summer. It has to be done but it's hard to be away from our little guy so much. On a positive note... he really has big fun at Mama & Papaw's house on the weekends and they really love having him so often. As you'll see below we have taken Jake with us a couple of times. He really misses his "old " house. I think that he has actually been a little home sick... especially since we lost Circles.

We had to let Circles go on March 19th and Jake has really struggled with the loss of his kitty. He didn't ask about Circles a lot the first week which perplexed us a little but we figured out why when we took him to Asheville with us the following weekend. He thought that Circles had just gone back to Asheville. We woke him up on Saturday morning to leave for Asheville and he said... "going to Asheville, Mama"... "going to see Circles". We tried to explain to him that Circles had gone to live in Heaven but when we got to Asheville he looked all over that house for Circles and it was heartbreaking. He started having bad dreams after that and asking for Circles all the time. He would wake up crying in the middle of the night and it was really difficult to console him. A couple of weeks ago, Trip asked Miss Felecia if she had any recommendations on how to help Jake through the loss. She suggested that we tell Jake that Circles is okay in Heaven. It seems so simple but it really helped. It somehow reassured him and even though he still asks for Circles now and then and continues to include him in his prayers each night ... he isn't having nightmares anymore and we're very thankful.

Jake is a playing machine! He will stay outside as long as we'll let him and he LOVES to play basketball, baseball, golf, soccer and football! I've even been convinced to let him sleep with some of his balls because he just couldn't go to bed without them. We've been to the park a couple of times and we've taken Jake to two Appalachian baseball games and a March of Dimes event at Kidd Brewer Stadium (Appalachian's football field). We try really hard to insure that we take advantage of fun activities with Jake as often as possible.... even if the vacuuming has to wait!

Happy 26 Month Birthday to Me!
Check out my bruises...
Whatcha doing over there Daddy?
I'm getting sleepy Mama.  Are we finished yet?
Wow... those ASU soccer players are really good!
A beautiful day to play on the ASU football field!
This is YUMMY!
I keep telling Daddy that I'm going to play golf
at the Masters so I better practice...
Daddy got me a real Master's hat!
Mama & Daddy need my help to get this house on the market.
Daddy says that I used to sleep like this when I was a baby...
More strawberry pie, please Papaw...
I'm just taking a little break...
Mama... I can get in this chair all by myself!
This is my serious basketball playing look...
Mama made me another bunny cake for Easter.
Look... I got a Curious George in my Easter
basket and I LOVE Curious George!
This chick and this bunny hop when you wind them up...
Happy Easter!
What's in there?
Wow... is this really for me?
Look Dad... I cracked my egg...
I made this one blue!!!
It's a great night for my very first baseball game.
He hit the ball Daddy!
Nap time....
Strawberries are one of my favorite snacks!
I miss my friends in Asheville...
Look Mama... the new sweater Grandma
made for me has puppy buttons!
The big brown truck brought me a present from Grandma.
Thanks for 18 wonderful years buddy...
We'll miss you forever.