Tuesday, December 27, 2011

A big family Christmas...

The first Christmas in our new home was wonderful.  It is so nice to finally be settled again.  The rental house was a lovely place to lay our heads at night but nothing compares to being in your own home.  Believe it or not four months in and we're still working on getting all the boxes unpacked and really need to get some things on the walls but we have plenty of room to entertain so we became the gathering spot for the family Christmas celebrations on both sides of our family.  

First... we hosted a Christmas brunch for 20 and it turned out great even though we haven't purchased a new "breakfast" table or bar stools yet.  We just haven't found exactly what we want yet and didn't want to feel pressured to buy something simply because we needed seating.  As the date for the brunch loomed closer my anxiety level increased because I couldn't figure out how we were going to seat everyone and then a light bulb came on in my head which allowed me to realize that we could rent a banquet table and folding chairs from a rental company.  It was easy, inexpensive and worked out great so who knows we may take that route again before we finally find the table and chairs that we really want to purchase. 

The brunch was so much fun.  We had my Mama and Daddy, my brother, his wife and their three kids as well as my Aunt & Uncle, their son and daughter along with their families and loved ones so the house was filled with love and laughter.  Everyone brought a dish to help out and the food was fantastic.  We all ate entirely too much and enjoyed having some time to visit with each other during such a magical part of the year.  It was a very blustery morning so Jake decided that he really wanted to stay in his footie pjs instead of changing into real clothes.  He was the envy of everyone.  He also took on the role of tour guide for our guests and as soon as each family arrived he would take them throughout the entire house to show them around which was just adorable.   He would even open the bathroom cabinets to show them Mama's stuff and Daddy's stuff.  It was all over much too quickly but we're planning on doing it again next Christmas and maybe sometime over the summer as well.  Family is too important to only see each other once a year so we'll try and hope that "life" doesn't get in the way of making it happen.

The magic of the season is so precious through the eyes of a child and Jake was so excited for Christmas this year... so much in fact that he was a bit overwhelmed which caused him to be a little out of sorts.  I think the unending events and the presents at every turn can be a little to much for little ones to process.  The holiday season brings family gatherings, parties and parades just to name a few things but it also means that schedules are out the window and exhaustion is not a little fella's friend.  This culminated in a few "un-Jake" like episodes which resulted in the threat of coal in his stocking but Santa decided to cut him some slack.  This is the first year that Jake has really understood the whole Santa concept.  He was determined to tell Santa that he wanted a JCB backhoe which he did in such a "big boy" way and the sheer joy in his eyes on Christmas morning more than made up for the holiday induced meltdowns we experienced over the two weeks leading up to the big day.

We spent Christmas Eve at Mamaw and Papaw's house with Uncle Russell, Aunt Kristi, Gage, Katie and Abbie.  We even enjoyed a quick visit from Laura, Thomas and Uncle Don which was a wonderful surprise.  I love being at my Mama and Daddy's house on Christmas Eve.  It brings back so many wonderful childhood memories.  The kind of memories that I want Jake to have of his childhood.  There have been only a couple of Christmas Eve nights that I haven't spent at Mama and Daddy's house and Trip has graciously allowed that tradition to continue for the more than twenty years that we've been together  but this year we decided that Jake needed to be at home for Santa so after a truly wonderful afternoon and evening with my family we headed back up the mountain to create our own memories.  It was so special to help Jake get milk and cookies ready for Santa and to listen as Trip read him the Christmas story and Twas the Night Before Christmas (among others).  He was so anxious that it was tough for him to go to sleep but he finally did along with his Daddy so I got to play Santa before turning in for the night.  Jake was so tired that he slept late on Christmas morning which I imagine won't happen again for several years.  I remember when I was little that I tossed and turned for hours on Christmas Eve trying to go to sleep but then Russell and I would be waking Mama and Daddy up before 5am to go see if Santa had visited us.  When Jake finally did wake up it was like he wasn't really expecting that Santa had come because we had the camera set up and when our adorable sleepy headed little boy walked into the family room he didn't even see his dream gift he just walked up to the camera where Trip and I were standing and then you could see him realize that Santa had been there and his reaction was so precious (check out the video below).

Grandma and Grandpa arrived on Christmas Day and we enjoyed some time with them before the rest of the family arrived for another holiday celebration on the 26th.  Grandma has an amazing way with Jake and he absolutely loves his time with her.  You'll begin to understand why when you see the picture below where they are "writing" with their feet.  We were so happy to have the house filled with family again and this time in addition to Grandma and Grandpa we also had Uncle Paul and Jennifer as well as Carley, Nolan and Johnathan.  Jake hasn't gotten to see Carley and Nolan very much so he was thrilled to spend some time with them and they were both just great with him.  He had a blast playing football with the Nolan and Johnathan and he was quite taken with Carley so he had to sit with her at lunch.  It is such a blessing to have found a house that allows us to host our families.  Trip and I love our families as well as each others families which is also a blessing and  we want Jake to know and love them all too so being able to spend time all together makes the holidays even more special.

You'll see below that I've also included a photo of our Christmas card which has a little story to go along with it.  We took Jake to a local Christmas tree farm to take our Christmas card photo this year and ordered our cards in plenty of time to receive them, address them and mail them out.  Unfortunately, I should not have ordered them when I was clearly too tired to focus on the task at hand.  I typed in our sentiment, spell checked it and reread it several times but still missed that the word "peace" had been entered as "piece" so when the cards arrived I had to throw them all away and reorder.  Even with rush delivery I didn't get them until the 23rd which meant that they didn't get in the mail until Christmas Eve.  Oh well... hopefully it's true that it's the thought that count but at least it was an adorable picture of Jake.

Having lunch with my cousins, Nolan and Carley.

So fun to have a house full of family.

Mamaw and Papaw gave me this guitar for Christmas
so I decided to put on a Christmas concert.

Merry Christmas from our family to yours.

Grandma and Carley... aren't they pretty?

Playing football with Nolan.

Okay... no Charlie Brown tricks Nolan.

Playing with Carley and Nolan in my room.

Christmas Day play time with Grandpa.

Grandma taught me to "write" with my foot.

Cool... an indoor putting mat with real holes.

This is just what I really, really wanted!

I'm so glad that Santa put me on the nice list.

Look Daddy... it's Francesco from Cars 2.

Santa really brought me a JCB backhoe with a 
flatbed truck to haul it on and I'm so happy!!!

Wow!  This is awesome!

Mama said... "Merry Christmas Sleepyhead".

Wait ... was that what I think it was?

 I love all the twinkly lights, Mama.

I think I'll just stay up to make sure that 
Santa finds his milk and cookies... okay?

Gage and Uncle Russell are up to no good.

Abbie and Katie on Christmas Eve.

Another one for me!  Wonder what it is.

We wish you a Merry Christmas!

Looks pretty good Mama.

Look Mama... I painted my hand.

Busted... sitting on the table eating leftovers.

Just hanging out in my room with Gage.

I love having my cousins here to play with me!

Papaw is wearing Mama's mistletoe headband.

I love spending time with my Paw!

You really didn't have to but I'm so glad that you did!

Christmas Brunch:  Table #1

Christmas Brunch:  Table #2

Mama's taking pictures so her chair is empty.

Getting ready to ask the blessing.

Be filled with wonder.
Be touched by His peace.
Believe in the miracle.


Friday, December 16, 2011

Christmas time's a coming...

Wow it has been a whirlwind since my last update (which was only two weeks ago)!  Trip and I have both been on the road a fair amount for work... our well pump went out and had to be replaced (that was a real learning experience)... Trip and I went to a football game and we took Jake to a basketball game... we went to Jake's school Christmas party and yesterday we celebrated our 4-year wedding anniversary (hard be believe that we have been together for 22 years!).

Appalachian made the playoffs and Trip and I decided to go to the 2nd round game which was a lot of fun even though we lost.  It was a date day of sorts because Jake spent the day at Mamaw and Papaw's house and had a great time while his Mama and Daddy got to spend a little time alone together.  We did a little early Christmas shopping, had lunch at a little place downtown, went to the football game and then enjoyed a nice dinner together at a little Italian place on the way to pick up our little man.  We don't do that kind of thing nearly often enough but we enjoy when we do ... even though we miss Jake when he isn't with us.

Jake kept Mamaw and Papaw laughing almost the whole day.  He is fascinated by the fact that his Mamaw has to give herself shots and she's trying to help him understand by explaining diabetes, insulin and low blood sugar.  She learned during this visit that he is really listening and understanding more than we thought because after his nap he said... "Mamaw, I have very low blood sugar so I need a lot of candy to get it back up".  It tickled her and Papaw to death.  Jake spent a good part of the day in the basement playing at Papaw's workbench.  He loves to play with tools and Papaw has lots along with the patience to teach Jake and let him play with them as long as he wants to hammer, drill and "fix" things.

Jake has had congestion and a loose cough for 3 weeks now so I took him to the doctor today and they diagnosed bronchitis along with a sinus infection and put him on antibiotics.  We saw one of the PA's this time and she was young and very pretty so Jake REALLY enjoyed his appointment.  He flirted something serious with our PA and tried his best to impress her.  There was a children's book in the room so Jake asked her why they kept that book in there and she said in case kids want their Mommy or Daddy to read to them while they wait to see their doctor.  I picked the book up and showed Jake the cover and he read the whole (fairly long) title out loud then looked over at the PA with a big smile on his face and said "yeah... I can read" then he invited her to go to his school Christmas party with him.  Trip was so proud!  Jake also told her that the Christmas tree in the lobby was beautiful and asked if she was the one that decorated it.  She told him that she was not but that she would take him out to the nurse's station so he could meet the ladies that did decorate it.  He marched right out there with her and announced that the tree was beautiful and that he thought that they had done a great job decorating it and then shared with them which ornaments where his personal favorites.  He was instantly surrounded by about 10 nurse's and office staff telling him how sweet he was and offering his lots of extra stickers so even though he had to get yucky medicine his visit to the doctor was quite enjoyable for him and his parents.

Favorite Jake Quote for this Update:   "Mama... you're the bestest girl I've ever loved."

Happy 46 Month B-Day to Me!
This Christmas tree is just my size...
Wow... that horse is pulling a sled with a Christmas tree on it...
I've been a VERY good boy Santa!
ASU Christmas Tree...
App State basketball games are really fun!
Put me in Coach... I'm ready to play!

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Truly Thankful

One of our favorite things about moving back to our college town is football Saturdays!  Jake received a lot of extra attention at the final regular season game for 2011 because grandma knitted him the greatest game day sweater ever.  It looks like an old-fashioned college sweater and everyone that saw it loved it and wanted to know where we got it.  Jake's favorite thing about going to the games is getting to play on the real football field after the game is over.  We always have to be sure that we take his football with us so he can score some touchdowns and kick some field goals and you can hear him giggle all the way up into the stands when his Daddy tackles him.

We celebrated a wonderful Thanksgiving with my family in Spruce Pine.  Jake ate so much turkey while Papaw was carving it that he was almost full before we even had the food on the table.  He especially enjoyed playing football with Gage and spending time with Katie and Abbie.  It was a great day full of yummy food, laughter and love.  I'm so blessed and forever grateful to be Jake's Mama and Trip's wife.  They are the answer to my prayers and because of them every day is Thanksgiving to me.

I had to work on Friday but on the Saturday after Thanksgiving we ventured off to Virginia to make our first visit to Grandma and Grandpa's new house.  It was a short visit but it made us feel better to know where they were and be able to see it for ourselves.  It's somehow comforting to see things in person and be able to visualize your loved ones in their new home.  Even though we weren't there for very long our visit was full of family because Trip's cousin Sharon and his brother and Jennifer also chose that day to visit which filled the house and made it feel like home.  On our way home from Virginia we stopped to enjoy some hot, fresh Krispy Kreme's which have become a very popular treat for our little man.

It was a busy weekend but Jake was so excited to get the Christmas tree up that Trip and I went ahead and put it up on Sunday in the midst of trying to get ready for the work week.... paying bills, doing laundry, going grocery shopping, etc.  I ran out of time and didn't get it decorated so before bed Jake decided that he simply couldn't wait and pulled out several of his toys to hang on the tree.  He was very proud of himself for "decorating" the tree all by himself.

I'm so excited to watch Jake this Christmas.  He's old enough to understand this year and he's already so excited that he's about to pop so it should be a truly magical year.

I think these stuffed animals look great on the tree...
Krispy Kreme donuts are my favorite...
I love you Grandma!
I am a rock star!
Grandma & Grandpa's new house from the front...
Grandma & Grandpa's new house from the back...
Family shot at Grandpa's new wood pile...
This is Daddy... his cousin Sharon... my Grandma and Uncle Paul...
This turkey is delicious!
Can I have some Papaw?
It smells yummy Mamaw...
Cheeeeeessssseeeee...
Happy Thanksgiving!
I really like to sit in this box...
Touchdown Gage!
Happy 45-Month Birthday to Me!
I love to play on the field after the game!
Go Appalachian!
On our way to see the Mountaineers play!